The Real Me

No Filter!

Heather Ashley Jones is dedicated to helping you Cut the Crap, Own Your Power, and Rule Your World.

Helping You Slay Life Like a Pro

Let’s skip the small talk, shall we? You’re here because you’re wondering if I’m the right person to help you. Deep down, you already know the answer—so don’t kid yourself. What’s holding you back?

Before we dive in, let me share the real story—not the Instagram-filtered version. Spoiler alert: I didn’t always have it together (and honestly, some days I still don’t—that’s just life).

I’ve cried over my downfalls, doubted myself more times than I can count, and had serious impostor syndrome. But guess what? That messy, uncertain version of me is exactly who taught me how to rise up and create a life I freaking love.

I’ve faced heartbreak, failed plans, child loss and those awful moments where you feel like the universe forgot to hit “send” on your blessings. And through all of it, I’ve learned how to turn setbacks into stepping stones. Now, I use everything I’ve been through to help women like you find their strength, step into their power, and actually live the life they want—mistakes and all.

Here’s the truth: I’m not perfect, and I don’t expect you to be either. But if you’re ready to find joy through the hard times, crush your goals, and rewrite your story, I’m here for it—and for you.

Now let’s get to work, because life waits for no one, and the Rise of Your Inner Bad Ass is overdue.

P.S. If you ever need someone to remind you to lighten up, cut the crap, and stop the BS, I’m your girl.

School of Real Life Taught by a Pro

Not a Poser

I’ve walked the walk—through life’s toughest trials, heartbreaks, and the kind of moments that make you question everything. I’m talking about real stuff: betrayal, infidelity, the loss of a child, physical, sexual, and emotional abuse, toxic jobs, narcissistic family members—the list goes on. You get the picture. I teach from experience, not theory. I’ve lived it, and that’s what makes me the guide you need. Embracing this keeps me real and gives me permission to be unapologetically myself—and it gives you permission to do the same. Perfection doesn’t exist, and if a coach is trying to sell you that fantasy, it’s time to run.

Now, I’m here to be your teacher. I won’t just tell you to “think positive” or slap on a fake smile over your struggles. Instead, I’ll walk with you through the doubts, fears, and pain, giving you real, actionable steps and proven systems to rebuild your life from the ground up. No matter what trial, burden, or life lesson you’re navigating, you’ll have the tools to overcome anything. That’s my promise to you.

I created the system I desperately needed—one that doesn’t sugarcoat the tough stuff but provides a road map to rise. Think of me as your guide, leading you to the wellspring of your strength, but remember—you’re the one who has to choose to drink and thrive.

Stop getting stuck in the blame game or the "poor me" mentality—it’s a waste of time and just an excuse to stay stuck. You’ve got two choices: let life happen to you and keep playing the victim card (yeah, it’s the easy way out), or step up, do the hard work, take accountability, and become the badass hero of your own story. Your call—so what’s it gonna be?

The Road That Led Me Here

In my early 30s, I attended an event that flipped my world upside down—in the best way possible. That single moment, that one new perspective, completely transformed my life. It’s wild how just one shift can set you on an entirely new path.

But let’s rewind a bit. I grew up in sunny Southern California, though my childhood wasn’t all sunshine and palm trees. By the age of 5, I’d already seen more darkness than any kid should. My parents fought constantly, and their toxic marriage ended. What followed was a whirlwind of babysitters and being thrust into the role of "oldest sister," which, let me tell you, made me grow up fast. Too fast.

I understood grown-up problems but only had the capacity of a child to process them. That’s a recipe for some seriously big feelings and zero tools to handle them. Oh, and let’s add a side of raging junior-high acne to the mix. It was so bad, I practically had a reserved seat in the Self-Loathing Club. Those years did a number on my self-esteem and planted the seeds for some pretty destructive limiting beliefs.

Still, I was a good kid. I threw myself into school and sports, eventually earning a spot as a college volleyball player. My skin cleared up, and with it came a new wave of confidence—though it came without boundaries. At 19, I spiraled into self-destruction and self-sabotage, which came to a screeching halt when I found out I was pregnant.

Placing my beautiful baby girl for adoption was the hardest thing I’ve ever done but the pause on self-destruction didn’t last long. Patterns like that don’t just magically disappear—they come back until you face them head-on and learn the lesson. Toxic relationships and bad decisions stayed on repeat until I finally decided I was done being my own worst enemy.

The turning point? Standing on stage in front of hundreds of people, experiencing what it felt like to release a negative belief and reclaim my power. That moment planted the seed. Over the next decade, I poured thousands of dollars, hours, and energy into training and certifications across several healing modalities. Slowly but surely, I cracked the code.

It wasn’t complicated—just deeply trans-formative. And I knew I couldn’t keep it to myself. I had to share it with my sisters—the women who, like me, are ready to rewrite their stories and claim the lives they deserve.